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Keeping Our Children Safe in Our Schools FASA’s Florida Bullying Prevention Initiative The Florida Jeffry Johnston Stand Up Against Bullying Act State law that requires: School district policy and action to Prevent Intervene Investigate Provide consequences for bullying that occurs in the school OR disrupts the education of a student in the school. In YOUR District’s Policy Bullying Means: Systematically and chronically inflicting physical hurt or psychological distress…. Unwanted and repeated written, verbal or physical behavior [that includes] ANY threatening, insulting or dehumanizing gesture…that creates an intimidating, hostile or offensive educational environment causes discomfort or humiliation or unreasonably interferes with the individual’s school performance or participation In Your District : All school employees are required to report alleged violations….to the principal or the principal’s designee The principal of each school must establish and prominently publicize to the school community how a report of bullying or harassment may be filed either in person or anonymously and how this report will be acted upon. In Your District: Investigation is required with documented interviews of the victim, alleged perpetrator and witnesses, conducted privately, separately and confidentially 10 school days shall be the limit for the completion of the investigation Immediate notification to the parents of a victim of bullying & the perpetrator(s) Required notification to local agencies where criminal charges may be pursued. What Does All This Mean? It’s against the law: for anyone in a school to bully in any way, and bullying is very broadly defined for school staff to not intervene in and investigate a bullying incident for a school not to have a program to prevent and intervene in bullying 6 What Does this Mean? If schools or staff members break this law and district policy, they doesn’t have much of a defense against disciplinary action, loosing their jobs or a law suit. 7 Protect with Respect 8 KIM WARNER ON BULLYING Hurtful Teasing Involves humiliating, denigrating, cruel or bigoted comments thinly disguised as jokes. Surprise! Some teachers do this. The Downward Spiral of Victimization Repeatedly bullied Lowered self esteem More ineffective responses More bullying Increases disapproval/avoidance by peers Thoughts of self-blame, “I deserve it.” Hopelessness More bullying Suicidal thoughts Protect with Respect 12 Why Address Bullying in Schools? You might save a life or a future You can stop ongoing misery You can help build a school climate where students are safe to learn For the larger community’s safety It’s Florida law and district policy So you don’t get lose your job or get sued 13 Bullying Prevention Needs to Be Designed for ALL students Preventive AND responsive Focused on changing norms Research-based NOT time-limited: Requires systematic efforts over time Supported by administrative leadership Involve ongoing commitment of all adults in the school. 14 Bullying Prevention must be schoolwide and comprehensive. It requires onsite training of every adult and student in the school. It requires procedures for intervention, documentation, support of victims and consequences for bulliers. Bullying Prevention works when it focuses on the social environment of the school It must become uncool to bully, tacitly approve bullying, passively standby. It must become cool to help those who are bullied. © The Olweus Bullying Prevention Group, 2009 16 Steps in Bullying Prevention Step 1: Establish & Faithfully Enforce District & School Policies against Bullying Be Sure Everyone Knows Policy on bullying (your district has one) Easily understood anti-bullying rules for the students Procedures for positive support and negative consequences © The Olweus Bullying Prevention Group, 2009 School Rules 1. We will not bully others. 2. We will try to help students who are bullied. 3. We will try to include students who are left out. 4. If we know that somebody is being bullied, we will tell an adult at school and an adult at home. © The Olweus Bullying Prevention Group, 2009 20 Step 2: Form a group to coordinate bullying prevention Investigate strategies and programs that work; recommend to administration Plan program implementation at school Communicate with staff and parents Coordinate the program with other activities Monitor with feedback from stakeholders Represent the program to parents, community, media © The Olweus Bullying Prevention Group, 2009 21 Step 3: Assess Bullying at Your School What? Who? When? Why? Where? How? © The Olweus Bullying Prevention Group, 2009 22 A Well-Designed Questionnaire Tells Locations of hotspots Patterns for girls & boys Insights into school climate Information to assess student supervision Adult & student attitudes about bullying Impact of bullying on students Can motivate adults to take action © The Olweus Bullying Prevention Group, 2009 23 Step 4: Conduct Staff Training Facts about bullying District policy on bullying Delineate normal behavior from bullying behavior Signs of bullying Increased supervision of hot spots Appropriate responses to bullying Intervention techniques Follow up strategies Importance of schoolwide focus Holding staff discussions about bullying © The Olweus Bullying Prevention Group, 2009 24 Step 5: Refine the Supervisory System • Develop strategies to increase supervision, especially in “hot spots” • Orient staff to be looking for bullying • Develop ways of tracking and reporting bullying incidents schoolwide • Evaluate your school’s physical design to reduce bullying © The Olweus Bullying Prevention Group, 2009 25 Step 6: Partner with Parents Coordinate with PTA/PTO/SAC Ask them to serve on the Committee Keep them informed Attend parent meetings about bullying Talk with their children about bullying Report bullying to school officials © The Olweus Bullying Prevention Group, 2001 26 Step 7: Do Classroom Activities Post and enforce schoolwide rules Reiterate appropriate and inappropriate behavior Explain consequences for bullying Hold class meetings where students can discuss concerns Empower students to seek help Encourage bystanders to speak out against bullying behavior 27 Step 8: Implement IndividualLevel Components • Ensure that all staff intervene onthe-spot when bullying occurs • Hold meetings with students involved in bullying • Develop individual intervention plans for involved students 28 Get to the Adults Bullying prevention is as much about changing the way adults think and act as it is about working with students. Adults need to be willing to step out of their comfort zone and act to save children. Step 9. Develop Community-level Components Involve community members on the coordinating committee Develop partnerships with community members to support your program; can help funding Help spread anti-bullying messages and principles of best practice throughout the community 30 Selecting Strategies or a Comprehensive Program Do you research. Find something that is likely to work This presentation is not a bullying prevention program Using this PowerPoint in your school is not a bullying prevention program It won’t keep you from getting sued But implementing with fidelity a proven-effective program is a good defense. Comprehensive Bullying Prevention Program A good program: Designed for all school staff and students Both preventive and responsive Focuses on changing norms Specific research-based how-to strategies (getting-started scripts and to-do lists) Not time-limited; requires systematic efforts over time. Recognition of the Olweus Bullying Prevention Program Blueprint Model Program (Center for the Study & Prevention of Violence) Model Program (SAMHSA) Effective Program (OJJDP) Level 2 Program (US Dept. of Education) 33 Other Resources National Media Campaign Take a Stand Lend a Hand, Stop Bullying Now! http://www.stopbullyingnow.hrsa.gov Other Resources www.bullying.com Protect with Respect Bullying Prevention and Intervention Program Internet safety training for educators, parents, and students. www.ISafe.org www.safeflorida.net/safesurf Hazelden also has programs for cyberbullying, dating violence (Safe Dates) and school bus safety http://fasa.net/FBPI/ Beware of vendors selling assembly speakers Dating Violence Dating violence is another form of bullying. Developing caring relationships is an important life skill that not all teens learn at home. Florida has a new law requiring schools and communities to address the problem of dating violence. 36 Dating Abuse Dating abuse includes behavior by a dating partner that Is used to manipulate, gain control over someone Makes a person feel bad about himself or herself or other people who are close to this person Makes a person afraid of her or his boyfriend or girlfriend DATING ABUSE BEHAVIORS May include: Physical abuse Psychological or emotional abuse Sexual abuse It is important to realize that emotionally abusive behaviors can be just as hurtful as physically abusive behaviors Dating Violence with Teens 1 in 3 teenagers report knowing a friend or peer who has been hit, punched, kicked, slapped, choked or physically hurt by their partner. (Liz Claiborne Inc., Conducted by Teenage Research Unlimited, February 2008) A comparison of intimate partner violence rates between teens and adults reveals that teens are at higher risk of intimate partner abuse. (Journal of American Medical Association, 2001) Dating Violence with Teens – Females ages 16-24 are more vulnerable to intimate partner violence than any other age group—at a rate almost triple the national average. (U.S. Department of Justice, 2001) – 58% of rape victims report being raped between the ages of 12-24. (Health Resources and Services Administration, 2002) Need to Know Warning Signs As educators, we should learn warning signs and be prepared to intervene, if we see them. We should also teach students to know these “red flags,” because teens often will confide in a friend before they will confide in an adult. What Should Schools Do? Establish policies about reporting dating abuse Train staff to recognize signs and intervene appropriately Teach students about dating abuse Host a schoolwide dating abuse campaign Educate parents Help students get community resources Work to create a school environment where respect and responsibility are promoted. Florida Dating Violence Resources Florida Coalition Against Domestic Violence Domestic Violence Hotline 1-800-500-1119 TTY Hotline 1-800-621-4202 www.fcadv.org Florida Dating Violence Resources Florida Department of Health Sexual Violence Prevention Program 4052 Bald Cypress Way, Bin # A-13 Tallahassee, Florida 32399-1723 Telephone: (850) 245-4455 Education/Campaign resources National Dating Violence Resources National Teen Dating Abuse Hotline 1-866-331-9474 loveisrespect.org National Domestic Violence Hotline 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) Other Dating Violence Resources Choose Respect—CDC Site www.chooserespect.org National Youth Violence Prevention Resource Center www.safeyouth.org Break the Cycle www.breakthecycle.org Highly engaging and interactive, Safe Dates helps teens recognize the difference between caring, supportive relationships and controlling, manipulative, or abusive dating relationships. Safe Dates Components Curriculum – 10 sessions, 50 minutes each teaching guide and reproducible student materials Dating abuse play and poster contest Parent materials Teacher training materials Includes: An agenda and training outline for a 3-hour session Topics Covered Defining caring relationships Defining dating abuse Why do people abuse? How to help friends Helping friends Overcoming gender stereotypes Equal power through communication How we feel? How we deal? 49 Preventing sexual assault Here is Nan Scholz of the Hazelden Foundation Take-Home Message Bullying in its many forms is a serious problem Stopping bullying takes a whole-school, long-term effort Change the school culture about bullying—both students and adults Contact Information Mike Tremor, Ph.D. Associate Director, Florida Association of School Administrators Coordinator, Florida Bullying Prevention Initiative [email protected] 850.224.3626 www.fasa.net/fbpi