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Love And Cooperation
Ephesians 5:21-33
Hnamv Caux Laanh
Ei Laanh Nyei Jauv
E^fe^so 5:21-33
21 Meih
mbuo oix zuqc laanh mbuoqc laanh weic zuqc
meih mbuo lomh nzoih taaih Giduc. 22 Meih mbuo
zoux auv nyei mienh aah! Meih mbuo oix zuqc
mbuoqc ganh nyei nqox hnangv meih mbuo mbuoqc
Ziouv Yesu wuov nor. 23 Weic zuqc nqox zoux auv
nyei m'nqorngv hnangv Giduc zoux jiu-baang nyei
m'nqorngv wuov nor. Jiu-baang zoux Giduc nyei sin,
Giduc yaac zoux jiu-baang nyei Njoux Ziouv.
21 Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ. 22
Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord. 23 For the
husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the
church, his body, of which he is the Savior.
Jiu-baang hnangv haaix nor mbuoqc Giduc, auv
yaac oix zuqc hnangv wuov nor yiem maanc sic
mbuoqc ninh nyei nqox. 25 Zoux nqox nyei mienh aah!
Oix zuqc hnamv ganh nyei auv hnangv Giduc hnamv
jiu-baang, yaac weic jiu-baang siev ninh nyei maengc.
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24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also
wives should submit to their husbands in everything.
25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved
the church and gave himself up for her.
26 weic
bun jiu-baang cing-nzengc daaih. Ninh longc
wuom yaac longc ninh nyei doz nzaaux jiu-baang 27
weic zorqv jiu-baang fungx bun ninh ganh, benx
njang-laangc nyei jiu-baang, maiv laih hlopv, maiv
nyauc, maiv waaic fangx, mv baac cing-nzengc nyei,
maiv lamh daanh dorngx nyei jiu-baang.
26 to make her holy, cleansing her by the washing
with water through the word, 27 and to present her
to himself as a radiant church, without stain or
wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless.
Fih hnangv nyei, nqox oix zuqc hnamv ganh nyei
auv hnangv hnamv ganh nyei sin nor. Haaix dauh
hnamv ganh nyei auv ziouc hnamv ninh ganh aqv. 29
Maiv maaih haaix dauh nzorng ganh nyei sin, zungv
uix longx yaac goux jienv hnangv Giduc goux jiubaang wuov nor.
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28 In this same way, husbands ought to love their
wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife
loves himself. :29 After all, no one ever hated his own
body, but he feeds and cares for it, just as Christ does
the church.
30 Weic
zuqc mbuo dauh dauh zoux Giduc nyei
sin nyei yietc nyungc. 31 Hnangv Ging-Sou fiev
jienv gorngv naaiv joux waac, "Weic naaiv
m'jangc dorn dorng jaa, leih ninh nyei diex
maac, caux jienv ninh nyei auv benx yietc dauh
mi'aqv."
5:30 for we are members of his body. 31 "For this
reason a man will leave his father and mother and be
united to his wife, and the two will become one
flesh."
Yiem naaiv deix waac gu'nyuoz maaih diuh hlo
haic nyei zien leiz ih zanc mbiaangx yaangh cuotv
daaih aqv. Ei yie ganh mengh baeqc nor, naaiv deix
waac gorngv zuqc Giduc caux jiu-baang. 33 Mv baac
naaiv deix waac yaac gorngv zuqc meih mbuo. Meih
mbuo dauh dauh zoux nqox nyei mienh oix zuqc
hnamv ganh nyei auv hnangv hnamv ganh nor. Auv
yaac oix zuqc taaih ganh nyei nqox.
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32 This is a profound mystery—but I am talking
about Christ and the church. 33 However, each one
of you also must love his wife as he loves himself,
and the wife must respect her husband.
 Laanh mbenz laanh (Companionship)
Laanh ziepc zuoqv hnyouv bun laanh.
(Commitment)
Laanh caux laanh jiu tong (Communication)
Laanh ei laanh (Cooperation)
I. Cai-doix hnangv haaix nor haih laanh
mbuoqc laanh? (How Do Mates Cooperate?)
• Oix zuqc ei jienv Tin-Hungh paaiv bun nyei gong
zoux (Abide by God-given Roles – Ephesians 5:21-33)
Auv – oix zuqc mbuoqc nqox . Wife – submit to
husband (v. 22, 24)
Nqox – zoux m’nqorngv oix zuqc gunv goux auv
caux hmuangv doic . Husband – head and
protector of wife and household (v. 23, 25-33)
II. Auv Nyei Gong-Buonc
(Wife’s Role in Marriage)
•Mbuoqc Nyei jauv se (Submission)
Benx da’yietv longc jienv nyei se hnangv zoux baeng
mienh mbuoqc baengc bieiv gunv nor (“primarily a
military term, to rank under, to be in subjection”)
Vind’s Expository Nyei Dimv Nzaang Sou yiem Loz caux
Siang-Ging-Sou maaih 1099 -1100 joux waac gorngv taux
mbuoqc nyei jauv (Vine’s Expository Dictionary of Old & New
Testament Words, 1099 1100).
A. Haaix nyungc maiv zeiz mbuoqc nyei
eix-leiz (What Submission Does Not Mean)
• Auv Maiv Gauh Aiv Nqox ( Inferiority to Husband)
Ninh caux meih juangc nzipc Tin-Hungh nyei fuqv
fih hnangv nyei (“Heirs together…” I Peter 3:7).
Lomh zoih yiem Giduc nyei mienh (“One in Christ
Jesus” Gal. 3:28).
Laanh horpc zuqc mbuoqc laanh (“Submit to one
another…” Eph. 5:21).
B. Haaix Nyungc Maiv Zeiz Mbuoqc Nyei
Eix-Leiz (What Submission Does Not Mean)
• Nqox nyei nouh gauv (Slave to Husband)
Giduc Mienh horpc zuqc laanh fu-sux laanh
(Christians to “serve one another” Gal. 5:13)
Mbuoqc yiem puix sienx Ziouv nyei mienh (Submit
“as is fitting in the Lord” Col. 3:18)
Nqox maiv haih aapv auv zoux dorngc fai doix-dekc
Tin-Hungh nyei waac (Husband cannot force wife to
violate God’s word – Acts 5:29)
C. Haaix Nyungc Maiv Zeiz Mbuoqc Nyei
Eix-Leiz (What Submission Does Mean)
• Hnamv nyei fiem-fingx, taaih ginx nyei jauv, caux
hnyouv suonc hnyouv ndaauv nyei jauv (Attitude
of love, respect, and gentleness – Eph. 5:33).
• Douh ganh duqv longx (Destruction of selfishness
– Eph. 5:21; James 3:16).
• Hnamv oix jiex ndaangc nqox oix gunv nqox
nyei jauv (Subdue desire to rule over and control
husband – Eph. 5:23).
Jangx jienv Tin-Hungh maiv zeiz bun meih nyei nqox
zoux m’nqorngv yiem biauv weic zuqc ninh se gauh
hlo jiex. Tin-Hungh bun nqox zoux m’nqorngv se
weic baeng gorng dorh hmuangv doic, maaih yietv
maaih nyeic nyei hnangv, meih caux ninh se fih
mbaengc nyei.
“God has not given your husband this position as
head of the home because he is superior to you.
Remember, you are equal to him in every way. God
has only given him this position to bring order and
harmony to your marriage and to keep you both
from entering into a power struggle for control.”
III. Nqox Nyei Gong-Buonc (Husband’s Role)
1. Zoux auv nyei m’nqorngv (Head of wife – Eph.
5:23; I Cor. 11:3)
2. Zoux Lingh wuonh nyei bieiv (Spiritual leader
– Eph. 6:4; James 5:16)
3. Ziux goux hmuangv doic (Provide for the
household – I Tim. 5:8)
4. Zoux bou nyei nyungc zeiv bun hmuangv
doic (Be an example of servanthood – Gal.
5:13; Mark 10:45).
5. Taaih ginx auv (“Give honor to the wife…” –
1 Peter 3:7)
6. Hnamv auv hnangv hnamv ganh nor (Love
his wife as himself – Eph. 5:25-29).
IV. Hnamv caux Laanh Ei Laanh Nyei
Jauv (Love and Cooperation –I Cor. 13:4-7)
1. Zoux hnyouv ndaauv (Longsuffering)
2. Zoux longx bun mienh (Kind)
3. Maiv mueic jieqv (Not envious)
4. Maiv douh ganh duqv longx (Does not parade itself)
5. Maiv ei ganh nyei hnyouv zoux (not arrogant)
6. Maiv zoux maiv zieqv leiz (Does not behave rudely)
7. Maiv lorz ganh nyei nza’hmien-bouc (Does not seek its own)
08. Hnamv zoux qiex jiez sepv (Is not provoked)
09. Maiv hnamv zoux orqv (Thinks no evil)
10. Maiv a’hneiv waaic nyei sic (Doesn’t rejoice in iniquity)
11. Kungx a’hneiv zien leiz hnangv (Rejoices in the truth).
12. Yiem maanc sic haih diev duqv (Bears all things).
13. Yiem maanc maaih sienx fim (Believes all things)
14. Yiem maanc sic maaih lamh hnamv (Hopes all things)
15. Yiem maanc sic yaac maaih noic (Endures all things)
Dorng jaa nyei jauv se yiem m’jangc caux
m’sieqv gapv daaih benx cai-doix yaac benx
gorqv-zeic nyei mienh fih mbaengc nyei, yiem
nyungc-nyungc sic zungv fih hnangv nyei,
caux ninh mbuo yaac benx yietc dauh hnangv.
“Marriage is that relationship between man
and woman in which the independence is
equal, the dependence mutual, and the
obligation reciprocal.”