Transcript Goals
Your Turn • In your logbook, list at least three things you’d like to accomplish in your life • Objectives: • To understand the importance of setting goals • To set effective and meaningful goals Goals If You Don’t Know Where You’re Going, You’ll End Up Somewhere Else If you don’t set yourself goals, you are adrift and at the mercy of the goals that other people set for you. Most people aim at nothing in life and hit it with amazing accuracy Why goal-setting works: There is magic in your brain Reticular Activating System Keys to Activating Your Reticular Activating System • Write down your goals (and look at them often) • Make SMART goals: S = Specific M = Measurable A = Action–oriented R = Realistic T = Timely On being specific and measurable: A goal must be both, or it is merely a wish • “I will be rich someday” is a wish. “I will make $150,000 a year by the time I’m 28” is a goal • “I want to lose weight” is a wish. “I will lose 20 pounds by Christmas” is a goal Another hint: The best goals are stated in the positive: • Not “I will ‘try’ to stop biting my fingernails,” but “I will grow my fingernails out” • Not “I will stop smoking,” or “I will not smoke,” but I will take good care of my lungs. (In the first two examples, “stop” and “not” are negative) Types of Goals • Short-Term: Usually accomplished in a few days or weeks. Example: I’m going to get a great grade on my first health test • Long-Term: Accomplished over time – usually months or years. Example: I will travel to 14 countries by the time I’m 25 Warm Up • In your notes, list five memories from your childhood that were powerful. They can be happy, sad, exciting, etc. A complete SMART Goal: • By the time I’m 25, I will have traveled to 5 countries. I will get there by researching destinations, saving $100 each month, planning the trips and completing travel. I can take steps toward this goal now by: 1. 2. 3. Taking a world language class Learning history Volunteering or working at a travel or tourism agency. It’s easier to meet goals if you break them into small steps: Example: Possible steps for becoming a veterinarian: Step 1: Do well in all science and math courses Step 2: Keep overall GPA high Step 3: Research the profession; take skills/interest inventories in the Career Center to be sure it’s a good fit Step 4: Find volunteer work at the humane society, zoo, a veterinary office or pet store Step 5: Research colleges Step 6: Apply for scholarships Step 7: Apply to three veterinary schools And now for some champion goal setters Scott Adams Claim to Fame: Syndicated cartoonist – Dilbert Goal-Setting Secret: Repetition Every morning, he repeated: “I will be a syndicated cartoonist, I will be a syndicated cartoonist, I will be a syndicated cartoonist… 15 times. Jim Carrey Claim to Fame: Actor/Comedian Goal-setting secret: A fake check Oprah Learned from Jim Oprah Winfrey • Goal-setting secret: Don’t let others dictate your path! • Oprah's Path Donna Shirley Claim to Fame: She boldly went where no woman had gone before Goal-setting secret: Never give up, no matter what ANYONE says Bruce Lee • Goal-setting secret: Write yourself a letter & focus on giving as well as getting • I, Bruce Lee, will be the first highest paid Oriental super star in the United States. In return, I will give the most exciting performances and render the best quality in the capacity of an actor. Starting 1970 I will achieve world fame and from then onwards till the end of 1980 I will have in my possession $10,000,000. I will live the way I please and achieve inner harmony and happiness.-- Bruce Lee, Jan 1969 Richard Santana • Goal setting secret: Choose hope over hopelessness • Went from 3rd generation gang member to Harvard graduate • Founder of Harvard to Homeboy Toby Keith Claim to Fame: Country music SUPERSTAR Goal-setting secret: Be willing to take action (work hard!) Suze Orman Claim to Fame: Financial expert & author Goal-setting secret: Write your goal on a Post-It note and stick it where you will see it every single day. Warm up • Begin completing the Focus on Goals sheet. John Goddard • Claim to Fame: Champion Goalsetter Extraordinaire & Motivational Speaker • Goal-setting secret: Write them down! (and use them as a checklist) From Tama Kieves “First you are inspired. Then you are nervous or disappointed. Somehow you started to believe in fear more than love. It’s time to choose again. What you knew when you were inspired is what’s true.” – Author, This Time I’ll Dance You! Claim to Fame: Whatever you set your sights on More Goal-setting secrets: • You’ll get there faster if you enlist people to help you • Never give up! • You are the one who has to live with you – so make your life the way you want it to be! Warm-Up • Grab a handout • Begin to fill-out your goals in the 7 listed areas Warm-Up • In your logbook, write two memories and explain their influence. Be detailed! • Write at least one smart goal for your vision book