Transcript Iwi Workshops

PAPAKI KORE
No smacking for Maori
Ririki
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Ririki is lifted from a famous Ngati Porou haka and
means ‘young ones’. We use the term to describe
Maori children and young people. Unlike the more
common word tamariki, ririki is not gender specific.
Te Kahui Mana Ririki Values
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Self Determination
Centrality of tradition
Focus on Maori strengths
Network and collaborate
Whanaungatanga
Educate and Communicate
Values shift
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We don’t blame colonisation
We take responsibility for our situation
We are liberated
We have our own expertise
We can now heal
Maori women and family violence
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More severe abuse
More likely to be hospitalised
More sexual, physical and emotional abuse
More abuse from people well known to them
More community violence
Maori child maltreatment
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Maori children four times more likely to be
hospitalised than other groups
Twice as likely to be abused as other groups
Around a third of deaths are Maori children
The child most at risk is under one year old, male and
Maori.
The Context of Violence
More Maori report
Community violence
And involved in
Community violence
More Maori children
are murdered than
other groups and the gap
has widened
Maori children are 4 times
more likely to be
hospitalised as a result
of deliberate
physical harm
1 year old Maori
males are
most at risk of being
bashed to death by a
parent
Danger ages 0-4 years
Maori women 17-24
of age and older
Receive high levels of
Severe abuse and
Medical treatment
More Maori Experience
All kinds of Violence
than pakeha and
Pacific Islanders
More Maori men and
women experience
violence from people
well known to them
The point of change
Caregiver
Ririki
The Whakapapa of Violence
Smacking
Killing
The alternatives to smacking
Smacking
The
Event
Alternatives
STOP
Kauaka
Noho puku
Take 10
GO
Haere
Haere ki te whanga
Walk Away
STOP
Kauaka
GO
Haere
The two first steps
to stop us smacking
DISTRACT
Whakawarea
Whakatiitaha
Divert the attention
IGNORE
E aro ke
Don’t sweat the little things
Kaua e ponana
PRAISE
Whakamihia
Smile
Pukukata
Say something nice
Kia humarie
ENJOY
Kia ngahau
Make it fun
Kia pareka
Alternatives to smacking
STOP
GO
Kauaka
Haere
Noho puku
DISTRACT
IGNORE
Kia Whakawarea
E aro ke
Whakatiitaha
PRAISE
ENJOY
Whakamihia
Kia ngahau
PukukataKia humarie
Haere ki te whanga
Kaua e ponana
Kia pareka
Our beliefs about parenting
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Ririki are perfect
Ririki have mana
Ririki are tapu
Ririki need warmth
Ririki need structure
Ririki need guidance
Ririki grow in to happy, caring adults
Papaki Kore
No Smacking
Wahi Papaki Kore
No Smacking Area
Marae Papaki Kore
No Smacking Marae