Transcript Sisters.ppt

Sisters
A Definition
By Jennie Fischer
Who a Sister Is…
I met my sister in November of 1999
across a study hall table. At the time the only
thing I knew about her was her name and that
she was from France.
Looking back a year later, I realize that
although we weren’t blood related or friends
our entire life, we formed the bond of sisters
through time, struggles, and the key to it alllove.
My sister was my friend before she
became my sister. A few weeks after our
first introduction, we had learned to trust
and lean on each other when we
experienced tough times.
The second week of January, she
became my sister. We packed up
the few suitcases of her life and
welcomed her into our home and
lives.
How a friend became a sister
Although we knew each other before she
moved in, we were further able to see each
other in everyday action. What we did in
our spare time, what our moods were like
when we woke up in the morning, what
kind of food we liked, how we handled
getting tired of the other and overcoming it.
Since we lived together, every night
could be a sleep over or a late night movie
marathon. The best times were talking until
dawn.
What Made Her a Sister
As we got to know each other better, we
began to realize what the other was capable
of and what was important in our lives.
Taking long walks on gravel roads, we
hashed out our beliefs and values. We
listened and accepted our
differences and debated over
important choices.
She understood the importance of
giving a card and getting one.
I understood the meaning of being
remembered and her importance of getting
over the rough times and not letting them
spoil life for days on end.
We both came to realize what it meant
to give each other room and how to
adjust to someone you see
everyday who has the same
ideas and interests
as you.
When we knew we were sisters
The day we said goodbye, she cried the first
eight hours of her flight, and I for several hours a
day after that.
We didn’t experience loneliness together
because we had companionship by just being
there. We had someone to talk to, hug, or laugh
with before. We counted on each other, planned
things, spent our holidays together and
pictures showed us physically as the family
we felt mentally and emotionally.
We were sisters because we learned
every little detail about each other, good and
not so good, saw what the other was truly
like when niceness wore off, when stress
ground down every last bit of hope and
what hurt us to the core.
After all that, we only loved each other
more.
My sister, Tifenn Prades