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Person Centered Thinking Coaches – An Introduction Developed by…. © The Learning Community for Essential Lifestyle Planning, Inc. 2006 1 Training Map Purpose: To review coaching principles and skills Ground Rules: Determined by the group Roles: 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. Facilitator – Time keeper Recorder Agenda Why have person centered thinking coaches? Who should be a coach? What do coaches do? When and how do you coach? How can the coaches be supported in their work and how can they support the organization in making changes? 2 Creating a Thinking Environment “The quality of everything we do depends on our the thinking we do first” Nancy Kline 3 Attention is important - Rounds Being present – no rush, no tapping feet Keeping your eyes on the eyes of the thinker Your face expressing interest and respect Stillness No interrupting – letting the person finish 4 Why have Coaches? 5 Why have person centered coaches? Make level 1 changes To take skills from training to habit Move toward the success that leadership group (and coaches) defined To learn what needs to stay the same and what needs to change within the organization Share learning with Leadership Group 6 Level 1 changes those changes that can be made without becoming a change target – without changing core structures, responsibilities, etc. 7 Examples of Level 1 Changes By using important to and for a service coordinator helps a man pursue his dream of driving via golf cart at a Georgia golf course Through matching a staff person skilled in sewing with a woman interested in learning crafts the woman was able to sew new curtains for her home that were sorely needed and make a friend. Person centered description used at an ISP meeting goals changed from “spending time in the community” to focusing on working, learning to read – things that were important to the person and important for the person. 8 The power of level 1 changes Sharing stories creates a buzz Shows people “it” (positive change) is possible Creates optimistic discontent 9 Level 2 Changes New policies, structures, practices Training needs are identified Examples: Orientation for all new staff includes person centered thinking training Most meetings use positive and productive meeting approach and incorporate pc thinking tools Learning logs used for all people at day service Matching staff with people supported used in hiring process 10 Moving from Service Life to Community Life Service Life • Important for addressed • No organized effort to address important to A Good But Paid Life • To and for present • Closest people are paid or family • Few real connections Community Life • To and for present • Active circle of support • Included in community life 11 Moving from Service Life to Community Life Community Life A Good But Paid Life Service Life ‘Important to’ recognized ‘Important to’ present • Important for addressed • No organized effort to address important to Focus on connecting, building relationships • To and for present • Closest people are paid or family • Few real connections • To and for present • Active circle of support • Included in community life 12 From training to habit Formal training Structured practice With feedback Informal training Reinforce Skill becomes habit Coaches roles 13 How to Coach 14 Difference between a coach and a trainer Trainers teach skills in formal settings using a fixed curriculum Coaches – Teach informally, using teaching “moments” Demonstrate skills thru modeling Give people “immediate” feedback as they are using the skills and help them improve 15 16 64 17 64 9 18 64 9 10 19 64 11 9 10 20 64 11 9 12 10 21 64 11 9 12 10 22 64 9 23 How to coach 1. Informally teach the skills (“Let me show you how we can use this tool to…”) Demonstrate. Share something that you have already done (“here is one I prepared earlier”) Work with people to do this (“lets have a go at working out what is important to and for…”) Side-by-side. Working alongside someone to use the tool (co-facilitating a session at a team meeting) Progressive delegation. Gradually hand over responsibility as the other person develops their skills. Watch, practice, do on your own. 24 How to coach GROW 2. Enable people to see opportunities G - goal or problem to solve to use the tools R - reality (what is working or not working or use 4 plus 1 (“Would any of the questions) tools help in this O - options (could any of the tools situation?”) help here?) W - will. Who will do what by when? 25 How to coach Feedback must be: 3.Provide feedback on the use of the skills (“What do you think worked and did not work about using that tool?”) Honest and helpful Specific Include recent examples. Relate feedback to behaviour that can be changed. Be descriptive not judgemental. Describe the behaviour not the person. Focus on a few important areas. Remember the balance of positive work and things that need more work. • Offer ideas about alternative ways of working. 26 How to coach 4. Reinforce the use of the skills, helping the use become a habit (“It was great that way that you…”) Ratio of Appreciation to Criticism, 5:1 Nancy Kline What will positively reinforce (make frequent use more likely) skill use and application of learning? What will negative reinforce (make it less likely that sustained use will occur) skills use and application of learning? 27 Understanding how people learn Look at how the people you are with learn Learning styles Individual and group learning Remember that there should be more than 1 opportunity to coach 28 What do coaches do, what are their core responsibilities, etc. Building the coaches donut 29 The coaches donut 30 Person centered thinking coaches – roles and responsibilities Core responsibilities • Seek opportunities to use the skills and use them effectively Use judgment and creativity Not our paid responsibility •In how learning is shared As a person centered thinking coach – •To model the desired behaviors – consistently walk the talk •Encouraging others to walk the talk •Make people learn, walk the talk •How to utilize/sell the resources •Make people use resources •Understand & use the resources available •Sharing what isn’t working in ways that people can hear •To have every effort work •Identify what is and is not working – and share •How to contribute to problem solving •Participate in agency problem solving efforts •Looking for the “low hanging fruit” – opportunities •To develop person centered plans •Make changes in how the organization works, policies, structures •Creating a buzz 31 Person centered thinking skills Some of the ways they can help those who use services and the organizations that support them 32 Skills needed to support people Supporting Dreams Supporting Relationships/ Community Connecting Being “Mindful” and Recording Learning: Matching Staff and Those Using Services Recognizing/Sorting Important To and Important For —Finding the Balance Between •Working/Not Working • The 4 Questions •Learning Log Learning, Using and Recording Communication Defining Staff Roles and Responsibilities 33 Rate your skills © The Learning Community for Essential Lifestyle Planning, Inc. 2006 34 Rate your skill for each tool 0 = I’m not using this tool 1 = I just started using this tool, still learning how and when to use 2 = I have learned how to use this tool (when and how) 3 = Competent and confident, but have to remind myself to use it, still forget 4 = Habit, I use it whenever it is helpful 35 Important to/important for For the person Helps people get more of what is important to them without ignoring important for Identifying what still needs to be learned Helps people make critical decisions only when the relevant information is present For the organization Teaches critical thinking Reinforces “think before you act” Helps people feel listened to Supports an active learning culture 36 Defining roles and responsibilities – using the “donut” For the person Makes it more likely that those things that are most important (to or for) will happen People will be creative in support Those paid will “keep their noses out of” those things that are not their paid responsibility For the organization Builds a culture of accountability Clearly delineates who is responsible for what Supports being creative without fear 37 Matching staff with those who use services For the person Because staff find more pleasure in their work they stay longer (more stability) Where there is a good match – People who use services are more likely to have what is important to them New learning about what is important to people is more likely to happen For the organization Reduces turnover Makes those who use and provide services feel valued/respected Helps support “real” relationships Decreases likelihood of incidents 38 Communication chart For the person Use of the communication chart in day to day support insures that There is an increase in the presence of what is important to the person People using services feel listened to There is a decrease in frustration and the behaviors that go with it For the organization Recognizes learning done by those who support Reinforces learning culture Provides new/relief staff with a quick way to get off to a good start Decrease in challenging behaviors and therefore a decrease in incidents Increases/reinforces observational skills 39 Mindful learning: Working/not working For the person Results in greater clarity about what needs to stay the same and what needs to change in each person’s life Helps in determining goals/outcomes that help the person move toward a desired life For the organization Teaches critical thinking Promotes better problem solving Leads to clarity about what needs to change and what needs to stay the same Supports a learning culture 40 Mindful learning: 4 plus 1 questions For the person Provides a record of those things that have been tried and their efficacy Those who support are less likely to continue to do those things that are not working in support Figuring out better ways to support people are likely to happen faster For the organization Everyone has a voice and feels listened to Collective learning/knowledge is gathered efficiently More effective use of meeting time Facilitates effective problem solving 41 Mindful learning: learning log For the person Because people are recording what is working and not working in support – More of what is working and Less of what is not working will occur For the organization Those doing the work feel listened to Learning done by those doing the work is recorded Provides a vehicle for learning to be synthesized and recorded Helps with problem solving/hypothesis testing Creates good paper Reinforces a learning culture and teaches critical thinking 42 Tools for building Person Centered Descriptions Communication Chart Matching Staff Relationship Map 4 + 1 ?s Learning Logs Rituals Reputation Good Day/ Bad Day Working/ Not Working 43 Person Centered Description Like and Admire Important for Important to Person Centered Description Instruction s for Supporters Things to Figure Out Characteristic s of Supporters 44 Learning Wheel What needs to stay the same? What needs to change? Person Centered Description Action Planning PCT Tools Implementation & Learning 45 When to coach Who to coach 46 A teaching moment…. An opportunity to demonstrate how one of the skills will help in a situation For the learners – Feel immediately useful - Help with the issue at hand Not take more time then they have Appear to be something that they can do themselves 47 Using a learning opportunity What meetings do you attend in the course of a week or month? What tool would be helpful for people in that meeting What are the other “natural” opportunities for skill/tool use? Look at how you ranked your skills, Where do you have a “good” score (a 4 or a 5) and there is a good opportunity to use it? 48 Action Planning Use “planning for success” to develop a personal action plan for a successful start in coaching 49 ID patterns, organize learning Collective learning Plans for sharing, celebrating, changing Coaches Group Leadership Group Individual learning ID what needs to be share, celebrated, or changed 50 for more information go to: www.learningcommunity .us or contact: Michael Smull [email protected] 410-626-2707 3245 Harness Creek Rd Annapolis, MD 21403 51