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Celeste A. Jones, MSW, PhD and Arthur R. Sanchez, PhD We live our lives according to the stories we tell ourselves and the stories that others tell about us. Mental Constraints We take our shape; it is true, within and against that cage of reality bequeathed to us at birth; and yet it is precisely through our dependence on this reality that we are endlessly betrayed. Video Exercise Nine Dot Exercise Triangle Exercise There is no triangle Consultant Epistemology Worldview constitutes how individuals think, behave, make decisions and define events Refer to Appendix B, page 24 Adjusting our professional frames as consultants Maintain a posture of curiosity! “We keep moving forward, opening new doors, and doing new things, because we’re curious and curiosity keeps leading us down new paths.” Walt Disney Understand that all things change—sooner or later “Change is happening all the time; our role is to identify useful change and amplify it. Gregory Bateson Orient yourself toward process and co-drift. Alice: Would you tell me, please, which way I ought to go from here? The Cat: That depends a good deal on where you want to get to Alice: I don't much care where. The Cat: Then it doesn't much matter which way you go. Alice: …so long as I get somewhere. The Cat: Oh, you're sure to do that, if only you walk long enough. Ask questions that you genuinely do not know the answers to. Continued Forty years of outcome research: what works? (Lambert 1992) What do you think are the main variables that contribute to successful outcomes? Lambert Findings The contribution of clients and chance events 40% Therapeutic alliance 30% Hope and expectancy 15% Model and technique 15% Continued Collaborate and Co-create Influence the collaborative alliance by: 1. 2. 3. See the person as a consultant to the process Recognize and respect the expertise Focus on resources and co-create new ones Overview of Building Collaboration Models Narrative Solution Conversations Building Conversations Narrative Conversations Underlying Premises Problems are thin descriptions of peoples lives Respectful, non-blaming approach to counseling and community work, which centers people as the experts in their own lives. Problems are seen as external Resources are drawn upon to reduce the influence of the problem. Individuals speak meaning into their lives Narrative Conversations Role of the Consultant The Consultant views problems as oppressive to families/systems and need of elimination. The consultant works to find unique outcomes, that is, exceptions to families' /system problems. The consultant uses questions and helps families/systems create new stories where they, and not their problems are in control. Narrative Continued Goals of Treatment The focus of treatment is on helping those who come to consult with us to re-author their lives and bring about change so that they and not their problems dominate. Narrative Continued Consultation Techniques Externalization of the problem Influence (effect) of the problem on the person Influence (effect) of the person on the problem Raising dilemmas Predicting setbacks Using questions (exceptions and significance questions) Letters Celebrations and certificates Narrative Video Narrative Therapy with Children with Stephan Madigan, PhD If We Stand Tall, It is Because We Stand on The Backs of Those Who Came Before Us. Yoruba Proverb Narrative Stages 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. Separate the problem from the client Map the influence of the problem Attend to exceptions to the problem Reclaim special abilities and strengths Call upon available resources Exercise on Narrative Stages Volunteers for the Exercise One person has a problem—real play—they describe what the problems is to us Another person volunteers to role that problem Third person volunteer s to be an investigative reported who is a specialist in subterfuge and corruption Part I The person is playing the investigative reporter interviews the person who is playing the problem about the problem’s successes Role of the “Problem” The person playing the “problem” needs to know that the problem tends to be arrogant and boastful –and it is rarely difficulty to get the problem to spill the beans on how they have achieved these successes. In fact, they are so full of themselves; they usually give away their secrets and bring themselves undone when given the slightest opportunity to do so. For this reason, they will find themselves in quite a cooperative mood during their interview with the investigative reporter. Role of Investigative Reporter It is important that the investigative reporter stay on track with their task. It is not their job to cure the problem or in any way to attempt to reform it. Instead they should assume the position form which they might simply develop an expose of the life and identity of the problem. Role of the Person with the Problem The person who has the problem, describes to the person playing the problem what the problem is. Then during the first two parts the person with the problem listens carefully without interrupting the interviews Part I Investigative Reporter Questions the problem’s influence in the different areas of the subject’s life (for example, its effects on the subject’s relationships with others, its impact on the subject’s feelings, its interference in the subject’s thoughts, its effects on the subject’s story about who they are as a person, how it has the subject treating their own life, and so on) the strategies, the techniques, the deceits, and the tricks that the problem has resorted to in its efforts to get the upper-hand in the subject’s life, the special qualities possessed by the problem that it depends upon to undermine and to disqualify the subject’s knowledge and skills. This can include an inquiry into the powerful ways that the problem speaks in its efforts to impose its authority on the subject’s life, the purposes that guide the problem’s attempts to dominate the subject’s life, and the dreams and hopes that the problem has for the subject’s life, who stands with the problem, and an investigation into the various forces that are in league with it, the plans that the problem has ready to put into action should its dominance be threatened. Part II The person who is playing the investigative reporter interviews the person who is playing the problem about the problems failures Part II Investigative Reporter Questions Investigative reporters have many options for questions that are effective in developing an expose on the problem’s failures. These can include an inquiry into: the territories of life over which the subject still has some influence despite the problem’s attempts to totally dispossess the subject, the counter-techniques, counter-strategies, and the tricks that have been developed by the subject that have at times been effective in "throwing a spanner in the works" of the problem’s efforts to get the upper hand in the subject’s life, the special qualities, knowledge, and skills possessed by the subject that have proven difficult for the problem to undermine and to disqualify. This can include an inquiry into the nature of the "self-talk" that the subject has developed to challenge the problem’s attempt to impose its authority on their life, the purposes and commitments that guide the subject’s efforts to challenge the attempts of the problem to dominate the subject’s life, and that have frustrated the dreams and the hopes of the problem, who stands with the subject (relatives, friends, acquaintances, teachers, therapists, and so on), and the part they have played in denying the problem’s desires and wishes, Part III The person who has the problem has the opportunity to share with the others their experience of these two interviews. They also have the opportunity to comment on the accuracy of the portrayal of the problem. Following this, the persons who have been playing the problem and the investigative reporter talk of their experience of the first two parts of the exercise, and then all parties to the exercise are invited to share their thoughts on proposals for action that might undermine the influence of the problem in the person’s life. Narrative Questions Welcoming Questions that invite the person/s to share how they decided to come for consultation and begin the collaborative dialogue. Opening Questions: What is it that you would like to begin discussing during our time together? Questions continued Is it possible that coming here today is a challenge to the problem? Ask questions to invite the person/s to investigate new meanings associated with new unique outcomes. Would you prefer to be someone who is being held hostage by this problem lifestyle or someone who has battled the influences of a problem lifestyle and won? It is obvious that….I am impressed with your ability to… Questions continued Mapping the Influence Questions: How does the problem influence the Person/s life? How does it feel to have this problem control your life and your Person/s? Unique Outcomes: Describe times when you could have been influenced by the problem but you were not. Solution-Building Conversations Overall goals Change the doing Change the viewing Underlying Premises Focus on exceptions and small changes Reality is seen as a reflection of observation and experience, not as objective reality. The Person/System is viewed as a collaborator in the process and wanting to change Present is emphasized Exceptions to patterns are highlighted Solution-Building Continued Role of the Consultant Solution-Building consultant facilitates by asking questions and initiates change through simple and universal solutions. Goals of Treatment Help the family/system find solutions through internal resources. Help the family/system perceive the world in a different way where change is possible and small changes are important Solution-Building Continued Five D’s: Develop image of realistic solution (miracle question) that the person/system can support Discover what way solution is already in action Deconstruct schema (exceptions) Notice anything different after deciding to come in for session Notice things you would like to happen again between sessions continued Determine small measurable steps toward goal Describe thoughts actions and feelings which are useful in attaining the goal—use strengths Do something to make a difference-do one thing different, more of same Solution-Building Continued Consultation Techniques Joining Listening and accepting Noting patterns and exceptions Compliments Scaling Mapping “Miracle Question” Task Assignments Emphasizing small changes Solution-Building Continued The Miracle question: “Suppose one night while you were asleep, there was a miracle and this problem that brought you here today was solved, how would you know? What will be different?” Integrating the Approaches First session goal is to provide: Build alliance emotional support, a sense of being understood, Echo/match language establish goals unpack/deconstruct stories Identify resources co-create alternate view of the presenting problem Step 1: Building a Collaborative Alliance Open the first session with greeting and some relaxed time warming the members to the immediate process. How will the individual know if the work about to happen is worth the time? Step 1: Continued Use Cognitive map (General stages previously introduced) to guide inquiries scaling miracle question observe the influence of mental constraints collaborate toward alternative meanings that open possibilities meaningful insight based on exceptions and unique outcomes Step 2: Dialogue about Strengths and Resources Strength-Based Questions Ask “How” and “Why” questions can be used to thicken the story. Ask about past successes Survival Questions “I know things are tough now, but I’m really interested to find something out: just how have you (this family/system) survived? How have you kept going even with these problems that have happened lately?” Step 3: Satisfying Expectations Consultee expectations Consultees’ expect relief based on their notion of the concern, seldom realizing that it is their view of the problem that contributes to its maintenance. Challenging Mental Constraints requires unique outcome amplification. Step 4: Summarize/Rituals/Letters Compliment the system and its members Assignments Scaling Prescribing “miracle work” Slow-down technique Reestablish rituals and create new ones These approaches are a combination of the work of Michael White, David Epston, Inso Kim Berg, Steve de Shazer and more. Appendix M has a list of references.