Transcript Document

AGGRESSORS, VICTIMS AND
BYSTANDERS
AVB
THINKING AND ACTING TO PREVENT
VIOLENCE
CONFLICT
IS.....
DIFFERENT KINDS OF
CONFLICTS CAN BE
Arguing with parents
BEING HARASSED
BEING MISUNDERSTOOD
FIGHTING
SPREADING RUMORS
GETTING PICKED ON
BEING TROUBLED OVER
SOMETHING
WHAT ARE SOME OTHERS?
YELLING AT
OTHERS
PEOPLE HANDLE CONFLICT IN
DIFFERENT WAYS
imgres
POSITIVE WAYS ARE:
STAYING CALM
SPORTS
SOME ACTIVITY
THINKING BEFORE ACTING
AGREE TO DISAGREE
NEGATIVE WAYS ARE
FIGHTING
AVOIDING
PRETENDING NOTHING IS BOTHERING THEM
WAR
CRIMES
BAD FEELING SUCH AS STRESS, ANGER, FEAR, and
SADNESS
Look at the following
pictures. What do
you think might be
happening?
AGGRESSOR:
ONE THAT ACTS IN A HOSTILE
MANNER (BULLY)
*PROVOKES OTHERS
*STARTS FIGHTS (PHYSICALLY OR
VERBALLY)
VICTIM:
ONE THAT THE AGGRESSION IS AIMED AT
A TARGET CAN BE PHYSICAL OR VERBALLY
ATTACKED.
BYSTANDER:
ONE THAT IS NEARBY DURING A
CONFLICT, PLAYS A PIVOTAL ROLE IN
CONFLICT RESOLUTION
A BYSTANDER CAN CAUSE A CONFLICT
TO
 ESCALATE
or
 DE-ESCALATE
Who is the Victim? Who is the bystander?
Who is the aggressor?
CAN YOU TELL?
Let’s look at the pictures again!
Now can you explain using the
words we just learned what
might be going on?
We experience and express conflicts in many different ways.
Everyone has conflicts; people are not good or bad because
they experience them. Conflict is a normal part of life. The
important issue is how we handle conflict. If we resolve our
conflicts by fighting, then conflict becomes something
negative. If we handle it is a positive way, then conflict can
help us learn more about ourselves and others.