Transcript DREAM ?????? - the Hoffman

DREAM ??????
WHAT IS DREAM ???????
DREAM
• We all have DREAMS…………………………..
• We all want something from life…………
• What is one of your Dreams…………………
DREAM
DREAM everything
DREAM anything
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DREAM HIGH
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Take a moment now just to
DREAM
Think about what you really want for your life
Think for 5 minutes about your DREAMS
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DREAM for your desires in life
NOW TAKE ACTION
• It is not what we do in a while that counts,
but our consistent ACTION
WHAT IS THE FATHER OF ALL
ACTIONS ??????
DECISION IS THE FATHER OF ALL
ACTIONS
Our DECISIONS
not the conditions
determine our
DESTINY
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TAKE A DECISION
NOW
COMMITMENT & CONVICTION
• Realize the power of a single DECISION acted
upon immediately and with conviction
TAKE UNSTOPPABLE
ACTION TO YOUR
DECISION NOW
COMMITMENT
The secret to follow a DECISION is to make a
public commitment, one so forceful you cannot
turn back from it
WHAT WOULD YOU DO TO INVOKE
GREAT LEVEL OF PASSION,
CONVICTION AND ACTION TO
UNSTPPABLE MOMENTUM
DECISIONS OF PAST
Write down
FIVE DECISIONS
of past
that powerfully influenced
your life today
Make a DECISION TODAY that can change or improve
the quality of your life
• Do something you have been putting off……….......
• Master a new set of skills………………………………......
• Treat people with newfound set of respect and
compassion……………………………………………..............
• Call someone you haven’t spoken to in years………
EFFECTS OF DECISIONS
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Just know that All DECISIONS
Have consequences
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Even not taking a DECISION at all
is a DECISION in its own way
DECIDE TO CHANGE UNHAPPY THINGS
If there’s anything you’re not happy about………..
• In your relationship…………………………………………………
• In your health…………………………………………………………
• In your career………………………………………………………….
Make a DECISION right now to change it
immediately
TWO DECISIONS TODAY
Today, make two DECISIONS you have been
putting off
• One easy………………………………………………………
• One that’s bit more far reaching……………………
THE MORE DECISIONS YOU MAKE, THE BETTER YOU’LL BECOME
AT MAKING THEM
DECISIONS MAKE MUSCLES AND MUSCLES BECOME STRONGER
WITH USE
RAPID DECISIONS BUT WELL
THOUGHT
• Those who succeed tend to make DECISIONS
rapidly and are slow to reverse a well thought
out position
Conversely
• People who fail usually decide slowly and
change them frequently
NOW
WHERE YOU ARE ????
START PRACTICAL FOR YOUR DREAMS
GUIDELINES FOR GOAL SETTING
HOW TO DESIGN A GOAL
1- SPECIFIC
2- MEASURABLE
3- ACHIEVABLE
4- REALISTIC
5- TIME
SMART
Principle
THE GOAL MUST BE……………
1- WRITTEN
2- FOCUS
3- COMMITMENT
4- BELIEVE
5- NEVER QUIT
QUITTERS NEVER WIN----WINNERS NEVER QUIT
SETTING GOALS
• 10 minutes daily- for next 4 days
• Keep a permanent record of these goals
• Constantly ask yourself…………
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What do I want from my life?
What I want to be?
What am I committed to?
What am I happy about?
What am I proud about?
What am I grateful about?
What do I love?
What loves me?
What will enhance the quality of my life?
• Give each of your GOALS
• a timeline (6 months, 1 year, 5 years, 10 years, 20 years)
• Highlight your top 1 year GOAL
NOW
• RIGHT A PARAGRAPH THAT WHY YOU ARE COMMITTED TO
ACHIEVING THIS GOAL……………………………………………………..
Day-1- Personal Development Goals
Personal well-being is Foundation for every
ACHIEVEMENT
1- Take 5 minutes to brainstorm all possibilities
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What would you like to learn?
What skills do you want to master?
What would your friends be?
Who would you be?
Day-2- CAREER/BUSINESS/ECONOMIC GOALS
1- Take 5 minutes to brainstorm all possibilities
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How much money do you want to accumulate?
What do you wish to achieve with your career?
How much do you wish to earn annually?
What financial decisions do you need to make?
Day-3-
ADVENTURE GOALS
1- Take 5 minutes to brainstorm all possibilities
• WHAT WOULD YOU LIKE TO BUILD OR PURCHASE?
• WHAT EVENTS WOULD YOU LIKE TO ATTEND?
• WHAT ADVENTURES WOULD YOU LIKE TO EXPERIENCE?
Day-4-
CONTRIBUTION GOALS
• This is your opportunity to create a legacy to
make true difference in others lives
1- Take 5 minutes to brainstorm all possibilities
• HOW CAN YOU CONTRIBUTE?
• WHO OR WHAT CAN YOU CONTRIBUTE?
• WHAT CAN YOU CREATE?
• Give each of your GOALS
• a timeline (6 months, 1 year, 5 years, 10 years, 20 years)
• Highlight your top 1 year GOAL
NOW
• RIGHT A PARAGRAPH THAT WHY YOU ARE COMMITTED TO
ACHIEVING YOUR GOALS……………………………………………………..
MAKE A LIST OF ACTIONS FOR 10 DAYS
1- Take first ACTION towards your GOALS
2- Make a list of next 10 days to experience daily
3- Add simple things to your list
4- Develop this habit in next 10 days
LIFE CHANGING EDUCATION
WHAT IS
success
WHAT IS SUCCESS ????
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A Pleasure ?
A Free Ride ?
A Dream ?
A Desire ?
WRONG
• Sweet , Without Pain ?
• Ask it Get it ?
• Easy ?
ONLY FANTASY
NOT REAL
WHAT IS SUCCESS ????
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ALL SUCCESSFUL PEOPLE
Tough………….
GO THROUGH THIS
Challenging…………
Frustrations………
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Dissatisfaction……
Resistance………..
NOTHING IS FREE
Hardworking……..
IN THIS WORLD
Rough………….
LIFE CHANGING EDUCATION
13 HIDDEN VALUES OF SUCCESS
13 HIDDEN VALUES OF SUCCESS
1- Attitude to Success
2- Leadership Skills
3- Communication Skills
4- People’s Skills
5- Overcoming Personal Fears, Doubts & Lack of Confidence
6- Overcoming the Fear of Rejection
7- Money Management Skills
8- Investing Time, Resources & Money Skills
9- Accounting Skills
10- Time Management Skills
11- Goal Setting
12- Systemization
13- Dreamer
HOW DO YOU CREATE YOUR LIFE
FORCE-1.
1- CONTROL YOUR EMOTIONS
2- CONTROL YOUR PHYSIOLOGY
EMOTONS ARE E-MOTIONS
1- SHIFT YOUR STATE OF MIND OR MENTAL FOCUS—Think of the best
moments of your life
2- Always Remain in High Spirits
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Feel Happy
Sing
Exercise
Do Love & Feel Loved
Study
Watch Movies. etc. etc …………………………………………………
CONTROL YOUR PHYSIOLOGY AND
BODY LANGUAGE
1- CHANGE YOUR PHYSIOLOGY ( -VE TO +VE )
2- CHANGE YOUR BODY LANGUAGE
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Shoulders High
Exercise
Dance
Head Up
Point out Your –ve and +ve Areas of Life
COMMUNICATION SKILLS
• 1- Words-------------------------------7%
• 2- Voice Quality----------------------38%
• 3- Physiology--------------------------55%
• People don’t remember what you say rather
they remember how do you say
• Thus, Body Language actually influence people
• Quaid-i-Azam, Bhutto, Churchill, Hitler……….
-VE TO +VE
• Write your answer on a peace of paper and
draw a line down the centre of the page
• On the left, list all –ve emotions and on the right
the +ve
DOES THE (im)BALANCE REFLECT THE RESULTS
YOU HAVE PRODUCED UNTIL TODAY?
AWARENESS IS FIRST STEP
HOW DO YOU CREATE YOUR LIFE
• FORCE- 2.
• FOCUS AND BELIEF
• VALUES OF YOUR LOVE & STRESS
• RULES OF YOUR LOVE & STRESS
HOW DO YOU CREATE YOUR LIFE
• FORCE- 3.
• LANGUAGE
• WHAT ARE YOU SAYING
YES OR NO
LOUD OR SLOW
DEPRESSED OR HAPPY
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WHAT IS
OUR NATIONAL ANTHEM
OUR NATIONAL ATHEM
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I CAN’T DO THIS
I CAN’T DO THAT
I CAN’T AFFORD THIS
I CAN’T AFFORD THAT
DO YOU WANT TO CHANGE THIS ANTHEM ???
NEW NATIONAL ANTHEM
INTELLIGENT, MASSIVE, IMMEDIATE ACTION
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I TAKE ACTION
WORK-----WORKS
HARD WORK-----WORKS
SMART & HARD WORK-----WORKS
I ALWAYS GO FORWARD---NEVER
BACKWARDS
TIME TO CHANGE YOURSELF
• In Order to Change Things You Must Change
Yourself
• Change your communication between your
BODY and MIND
• Change the word SHOULD BE to MUST BE
THREE CHOICES NOW
• 1- CRY
• 2- LAY DOWN
• 3- SHOUT
YES YES YES YES YES
YES YES YES YES
YES
RIGHT TIME OF CHANGE
RIGHT NOW
• THAT’S IT
• NO MORE
• NEVER AGAIN
• ITS OVER
CHANGE
• I Should Do It
• I Will Do It
• I Can Do It
•I Must Do It
I MUST DO IT
• I MUST DO IT
• I MUST DO IT
• I MUST DO IT
• I MUST DO IT …….NOW
• I MUST ACHIEVE MY GOALS
• I MUST BREAK MY BARRIERS
RIGHT TIME OF CHANGE
RIGHT NOW
• THAT’S IT
• NO MORE
• NEVER AGAIN
• ITS OVER
THANK YOU
Dr. Murtaza Iqbal
[email protected]