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Restorative Justice 4 Schools Ltd
How Restorative Language can build and maintain relationships
How your school could implement a shared restorative
language
What types of listening support RA
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Check in by asking people to share something
positive thing that happened today
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RESPECT
RESPONSIBILTY
REPAIR
REINTEGRATION
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Restorative
Mindset
Traditional
Mindset
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What happened
Whose responsible
What do sanction do I
need to enforce to
◦ change behaviour
◦ deter others
◦ avoid reoffending
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What happened
Whose been affected
What needs to
happen to put things
right
How can I support
this process to
◦ change behaviour
◦ deter others
◦ avoid reoffending
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Empathic - Seeking to understand what the
other person is feeling. Using body language
to demonstrating this empathy
Harmful - Pretending to listen but actually
spending more time thinking about
something else
Critical/Judgemental - Listening in order to
evaluate, criticize or otherwise pass judgment
on what someone else says
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In pairs decide who is person A and
who is person B
A: choose a listening type
B: talk about an issue which may be
concerning you
Guess what sort of listener your partner
is then change around
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Discuss:
-How do we feel when we are not being
listened too?
-How do we feel when we are being
listened to actively
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Restorative
Language
Develop and
maintain positive
relationships
Working within
circles
Restorative language is an affective
starting point for the implementation of
restorative approaches
Builds
communication
skills
Resolve conflict
Develop social
skills
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Form groups of 4-6 people ask each group to complete
one of the following tasks or ask each group to spend
5 minutes completing each task
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Task 1 - take 5 mins to make a list of
traditional questions and statements that were
used by staff in schools to manage behaviour
Task 2 – take 5 mins to make a list of the best
questions and statements that you hear used by
staff in schools to manage behaviour
Task 3 – take 5 mins to make a list of worst
questions and statements that you hear being
used by staff in school currently to manage
behaviour
Time taken 15 minutes
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In a restorative circle ask each group to feed
back their findings
Discuss:
-Which approach demands an answer from
recipient ?
-Which is the better way to engage and
communicate with young people?
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Form 3 groups
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Group 1 make a list of positive or “feel good”
emotions that could be included in a shared
vocabulary
Group 2 make a list of negative or “feel bad”
emotions that could be included in a shared
vocabulary
Group 3 make a list of core values (ie respect,
safe, care) that could be included in a shared
vocabulary
Choose 15 words from each list to go into the
shared vocabulary
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What do you need to do to implement a shared
language within school?
Go around in the circle and make a list of
suggestions of how a shared language could
be promoted within school
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Please feel free
to ask any
questions you
may have
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