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Are the kids alright? Importance of Early Years All Wales Mental Health Promotion Network Flying Start – engaging with and influencing parents and their early years children Wed 25th January 2012 Sam Carson Senior Educational Psychologist “Early differences in experience” Hart & Risley ( 1995 ) Encouragements 500K Discouragements 2 Phrases addressed to the child by 36 months Professional Working class Welfare Working class Welfare 35 million 1 Words Addressed to child by 36 months Professional RISK FACTORS FOR CHILDREN Traumatic Life Events Poor quality relationships Chaotic parenting/ no boundaries Violent parenting/ Rigid boundaries Anxiety / anger / grief / mistrust / loss of confidence / broken continuity Social isolation / preoccupation / powerlessness / aggression Insecure attachments / high levels of criticism / neglect Risk aversion / low self esteem / vulnerable Uncertain sense of self / poor socialisation / poor concentration Fear / abuse / anger / resentment Poor self-control / seek thrills / Underachievement / acting out / provocative / no autonomy Mental health problems Emotional, Behavioural & Social Difficulties Youth criminality Cardiff Flying Start Enhanced Health Visiting Part time Childcare for 2 year olds Language & Play sessions Parenting:- Parent Nurturing Programme - Parents Plus Parents Plus is a psychology service for pre-school children with behavioural difficulties and their families within Flying Start areas in Cardiff. The psychologist makes a detailed assessment of the child’s progress and their family context. EY Home Liaison Officers carry out a structured and time-limited intervention towards objectives that have been agreed with the parents. These are in keeping with a Parenting Positively approach. Accessing Parents Plus Families are eligible to use the services if they meet the following criteria: The parents of the child wish to use the service The child is under 4 years of age at the point of referral Parents Plus is inclusive – we welcome involvement with all children and families. Early intervention contributes to:a) Prevention of difficulties arising / becoming entrenched b) Building resilience & reducing risk factors c) Early identification and assessment of a child’s needs & referral to the appropriate existing service Parents Plus will be available if it is considered to add value to existing services. APPROPRIATE REFERRAL PATHWAY – criteria Referrer’s assessment 1 Fairly typical / normal problems e.g. temper tantrums; dummy; crying; bedtimes 2 Parents asking for advice on behaviour. Parents “out-of-step” in their management. Child uncooperative; not sharing; winding others up Child has short concentration; play skills not well established 3 Parents would benefit from fresh ideas. Getting stuck in negative interactions. Child seen as problem. Risk of breakdown in bonding / affection Child biting; scramming; swearing; rude; screaming Does not play purposefully; attention-seeking 4 Parents need clear ideas and alternatives to current approach. New routines needed. Un-resolving difficulties in spite of earlier support / advice Escalating problems in managing the child; things are getting worse Child appears sad; withdrawn; passive Child hurting others in temper; often angry / destructive / defiant Child not settling to play activities 5 Parents are stuck / “giving up”. Parents in conflict over parenting Expressing dislike of / blaming the child Family issues / personal problems having knock-on effect on home life Parents need strategies or programmes to help them to take new approaches “on board” – motivate to change Child is becoming out-of-control of the parent(s) Child in control at home; they’re ”Boss” Outrageous / risky behaviours – seeking out others to hit; vomiting; smearing; provoking; 6 Significant worries about levels of parenting / relationships / behaviour / well being Initial Assessment Visit What can Parents Plus offer? What other services are involved? What is the current situation at home / at school ? Identifying baseline measures What are appropriate targets? [ PoI] When can we visit? Intervention Process First sessions Playing with the child Finding what works for us with the child & modelling for the parent Getting to know the family situation Data collection Building rapport and a working relationship with the parent/s Middle sessions Engaging the parent / drawing them in to play Identifying behavioural problems and suitable targets Clarifying wanted & unwanted behaviours Getting details e.g. observation in school; sleep diary A-B-C records; assessment tools Family relationships & contextual issues Empathising and counselling skills Clarifying barriers to change Carrying out specific strategies with the child and family Helping the parent/s to see what it could be like Concluding sessions Checking that the intervention is on target Preparing to leave Identifying other appropriate services or community provision Questionnaire Report ( with Compliments Slip ) Parents Plus - Psychological basis •Normative play development •Motivational Interviewing •Human Givens & Needs •Ecological theory & Attachment Theory •Risks & Resiliences - social learning theory •Structural Family Systems •Parenting Styles •Parenting Positively: cognitive-behavioural approach •Collaborative supervision & reflective practice •Record-keeping & Evaluation Motivational Interviewing William R Miller and Stephen Rollnick CHANGE Encouraging discrepancy Structural-Strategic Family Systems David Helen Tom 2½ yrs Mike Jane 8 yrs PARENTING STYLES Child can be a child and know what pleases their parents CHAOTIC Democratic Assertive HARSH Too soft Nurturing – (often mother) Firm – (often father) Too strict No routines Lack of stability Child feels insecure Child used deciding Child in control Child has to work it all out for himself. Smacking Shouting Threats “No” - all the time Rigid rules Child does things out of fear Behaviour : What is “Normal?" Mother's Description of their Children at ages 2, 3 and 4 BEHAVIOUR Eats too little Resists going to bed Wakes during the night Wets self during day Wets at night Fights or quarrels Jealous Hurts younger sibling Hits others or takes things Stubborn Constantly seeks attention Whinges and nags Temper tantrums Active, hardly ever still Age 2 % 50 70 52 75 82 72 54 44 68 95 94 83 83 100 Age 3 % 26 46 52 14 49 75 47 51 52 92 48 65 72 48 Age 4 % 37 56 56 7 26 92 42 64 46 85 42 85 70 40 WHAT ARE THE IMPLICATIONS OF DIFFERENT UNDERSTANDINGS OF A CHILD’S INAPPROPRIATE BEHAVIOUR? This is what they are like ( attribution ) Naughty; bad; do it on purpose; blamed for being like this; There is something wrong with them – ( labelling ) Conduct Disordered; Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder Patterns of interactions established ( parent - child ) Stuck in a negative approach; only noticing misbehaviour; same thing happens over-and-over; escalating problem Attention-seeking ( what does the child “get out” of it? ) Fuss; adrenaline; excitement; provoking reactions; does not get attention/interaction other than by demanding Parenting Positively Cognitive-behavioural approach Regular patterns ANTECEDENTS Triggers C. Webster-Stratton – The Incredible Years Lee Canter –Assertive Discipline Applied Behavioural Analysis BACKGROUND Risk & resilience factors CONSEQUENCES Reactions WHERE ARE YOU PUTTING YOUR EFFORTS AND ATTENTION? “Well behaved” Playing Engaged in Watching Joining in Sharing Chatting Turn taking Laughing Cuddling “Naughty” Hitting Screaming Whinging Breaking Biting Kicking Arguing Provoking Demanding Parental Questionnaire responses at conclusion of interventions Over 75% of responses indicated that the Parents Plus intervention has: Helped the parent(s) to take more control of their child’s behaviour Helped the parent(s) to understand their child better Helped the child(ren)to respond better to their parent’s management PERCEIVED SIGNIFICANT CHANGES FOLLOWING INTERVENTIONS 100% 70% 63% 56% 50% 30% BETTER PLAY 41% HAPPIER RELATIONSHIPS 41% Significant perceived change =>2 IMPROVED BEHAVIOUR Parent’s views [ Scale 1 – 5 ] HLO’s views [ Scale 1 – 5 ] Before intervention All parents indicated they were having serious difficulties managing their child’s behaviour before the intervention. All of the mothers admitted to feeling in a low state before the intervention They said that their child’s behaviour made them angry, stressed and/or down Several mothers said they were suffering from depression; and two felt they had no bond with their child. Up to 4 years after intervention The most significant changes occurred when the parents (a) engaged in the intervention process (b) acquired new skills & strategies (c) gained an understanding of how they can affect their child’s behaviour and their emotional well-being Many of the parents were able to describe in detail several of the behaviour techniques that they had acquired and are still using, four years on. For a couple of parents, they felt that we did not change their child’s behaviour Parents said they were pleased to get ideas for playing with & bringing on their child; with positive behaviour management; & with improving their family interactions & relationships “Absolutely fantastic! As soon as you can manage the behaviour, you can do the bonding!”