Transcript Constant Contact Evangelism and Discipleship

CONSTANT CONTACT WORKSHOP
Constant Contact
Evangelism and Discipleship…Winning Them and Keeping Them
Dr. Michael S. Bell
Definition
Definition: What is constant and what is meant by contact?
Constant: A regular, perpetual, continuous, and faithful commitment
to keep in touch with sinners, one’s membership; new members, as
well as, long time members. For some members it might be weekly,
for others it is bi-weekly or monthly.
Contact: The touching of sinners, your membership with contagious
enthusiasm, with an expression of care, concern and compassionate
relationship. A value system that says, you are important to our
fellowship and you are an integral part of our mutation of the love of
God. This is done by the membership participating in weekly church
activities, phone calls, birthdays and anniversaries. I miss you cards,
enjoy your vacation cards, thinking of you cards and you are special
cards by using technology and the human touch.
Seven R’s of Constant
Contact
1. Relinquish (Romans 10:9-10)
2. Rely
3. Radiate
4. Relationship
5. Reinforce
6. Rejoice
7. Rewards
NON-WORKERS UNION
The Rappers: They love to hear themselves talk and
give commentaries, but they are not going to work.
Gossipers
The Mappers: These are the people with the plans to
get the church on a solid foundation, but they’re not
going to follow their own plans.
The Clappers: They love to applaud others, give
out commendations and praise to hard working
members, but they are not going to work
themselves.
The Trappers: These members are not going to
work and seek to keep others from working as
well.
The Hoppers: When they do not like what is
being done they hop home or hop to another
church. These are the feel good workers not the
do good workers.
Our Commission
Win them and keep them
Matthew 28:18-20
Keep It Simple
(Romans 10:9-10)
Use the KISS approach
1.
Keep it Simple Saints
Go not Gone
Is your Passion Gone? Is Your Purpose Gone? Is Your Zeal Gone?
Is Your Effort Gone? Is Your Giving Gone?
Gone means you might be experiencing :Darkness telling darkness where to
find light.
2.
a.
Do We Love Sinners
Loving those who don’t :Look Like Us , Speak Like Us and Sing Like Us
Our Commission
Win them and keep them
Matthew 28:18-20
Why Constant Contact is needed?
Many in the church are lost
Many in the church have a form of godliness
Many in the church are deep in rituals not righteousness
Many think poor people are better off not being in the church
Many are afraid that new people will take their positions
Many in the church do not believe what they preach and teach
Many in the church are afraid that new talents will be discovered .
Many in the church say, “We have never done it that way before.”
Our Commission
Win them and keep them
Matthew 28:18-20
Relinquish
While we sing, “Get right church and lets go home.” Sinners are crying, “Get right church and let
us come home.”
Our Commission
Win them and keep them
Matthew 28:18-20
The Cost Of Winning The Lost
Matthew 16:26
What is the value of a soul?
Are you willing to make the ultimate sacrifice?
Self denial
Refuse to be a monument
Keep it simple shepherd
Reactive and Proactive
Our Commission
Win them and keep them
Matthew 28:18-20
Relinquish
(Romans 10:9-10)
1.
Giving up sins and negative attitudes
2.
Let go from clinging to your own ideas
3.
Let go from your way, will and work
4.
Walk in His righteousness and please Him
5.
Commit your way unto the Lord (Ps.37:5) Your time, talent and
treasure to contact sinners for Christ.
6.
Be ready to share your faith and experiences by relinquishing fear.
7.
Old methods being force into present culture
8.
Relinquish the ordinary and the norm
OUR CONFESSION
Rely On God
We have done poorly
Prayer of confession
Repent
Reconcile
Restore
Identify your introvert ministries: What we do for ourselves
(2 Timothy 3:2-5)
Identify your extrovert ministries: What we do for others
(Matthew 25:35-36)
OUR CONFESSION
Rely On GOD
Trust God (Psalms 20:7,37:3,56:4)
Pro 3:5-6
1Cor4:2
Never rely on your own strength
Trust others to work with you (we
are in this together)
Witnessing is not about you it is
about your reliance on God.
Our COMPASSION
Radiate
1.
Darkness cannot tell darkness
where to find light
2.
You are the light of the world
(Matt 5:14)
3.
Never let your light go out
4.
Your light must be constant for
your contact
5.
Your community needs you:
Family and Friends
6.
Shine in the corner where you are
7.
Take the light to another corner .
Our Compassion
Relationship
We Care To Do Better
Our COMPASSION
Relationship
Who do you Want to Go To Hell? We Can Do Better
Our COMPASSION
Relationship
we care to do better
Our Compassion
Relationship
Who do you want to go to HELL? We Care
To Do Better
Our Compassion
Relationship
We Care To Do Better
1. Build loving relationship with sinners (2Peter 1:5-10)
2. Build relationship with Saints (1 Cor. 12:12-20)
3. Build relationship with your community
4. Build relationships not religion
5. Do you love sinners? Who do you want to go to
hell? Your sister, brother or parents etc.
Our Compassion
Relationship
Who do you want to go to HELL? We Care
To Do Better
Our Compassion
Relationship
Who do you want to go to HELL? We Care
To Do Better
Relationship
We Care To Do Better
1. How can you
demonstrate
compassion?
2. Are you a Santa
Christian?
3. Are you concerned to
see others develop
spiritually?
4. Going the extra mile
requires… Constant
Contact
Our Condition
Reinforce
1. Taking an introspective look
2. Identify barriers to constant contact
3. Creative ministries
4. Gift driven ministry
5. Passion and Purpose
6. Are we willing to change?
7. Developing Relationship
8. Do you know your Bible
Our Condition
Reinforce
1. Habitually share your faith do not speak in
tongues.
2. Go….. not gone (Matthew 28:19)
3. Keep in touch with new converts
4. Provide transportation to church and non-church
activities
5. Engage, embrace, enable and empower
6. Repeat and Reinforce
OUR COMMUNICATION
Rejoice
Congratulate the new convert
Cheer them on (Proverbs 15:13,15,30, 17:22 2Cor 9:7)
Celebrate them. Happiness is the expression that once again
light defeats darkness.
Confident builder: Joy and Gladness come with every new
convert (Psalms 45:15)
Certainty: assurance that you are now a part of God’s family
and kingdom (Luke 15:7)
Confirm and strengthen: Validate new converts.
Use members natural and spiritual gifts (Probation can kill
passion and purpose)
OUR COMMUNICATION
Rejoice
Celebrate:
1.
Cheer for others.
2.
Express nonjudgmental love for others.
3.
Listen wholeheartedly to others.
4.
Encourage others.
5.
Build authentic relationships with others.
6.
Receive the gifts of others.
7.
Appreciate others.
8.
Treat others with kindness.
9.
Energize others with grace.
Reward
1.
A loving community of
believers
2.
Assurance of Heaven
3.
Saint not sinner
4.
The church grows
5.
The Cross
6.
The Contentment
7.
The Confidence
8.
The Crown
Methods of Constant Contact
Letter to your community
Dear Community: Please forgive us for not being the Church we should be. We
have done poorly. We were so busy having church service and negate the great
calling to be your friend. Please forgive us and give us the opportunity to do right
by your side. We truly love you and desire to establish a relationship with you.
We are not asking you for anything we just want to be your friend. We desire to
share with you love and kindness. We are so sorry for not being there and we
commit to never let this happen again. We will be coming to see you and find out
from you what we can do to start this life long relationship of constant contact.
Your Servant,
Your Church’s Name
Make A Commitment To Do Constant Contact
Commitment Sheet: Whenever we get our membership involved with constant contact we will see a
greater interest in other ministries of the Church. Members who commit his or her self to reaching the
lost take on a great Christian participatory act. It is an action that is passionate and perpetual. If every
member of the local Church would do the following commitment sheet and live up to it, I believe that our
Church would be achieving the great commission.
Church__________________________________________________________________________________
Name__________________________________________________________________________________
Phone Number: ____________________________________
Date: _____________________________________________
“One More for Christ…Each One Bring One”
I am making a commitment as a Christian and faithful member of _______________________ to:
_________ Pray for the lost
_________ Befriend the lost
_________ Show acts of love to the lost
_________ Invite the lost to church
________ Be trained on how to minister to the lost
__________Reach one more for Christ.
________________________________
Signature
________________
Date
Develop A Contact List
I am making a commitment as a Christian and faithful member of
___________________________________ to:
Make a list of five (5) individuals who I will contact for Jesus this week. I will
use the phone, send a letter, postcard or make a personal visit. I will do this
contact a minimum of three times in a week.
1._________________________________________________
2._________________________________________________
3._________________________________________________
4._________________________________________________
5._________________________________________________
Covenant with God that you will contact the people on your list constantly.
Contact Information
For “Constant Contact” Workshops
or Revivals please contact
Dr. Michael S. Bell, Pastor
St. John A.M.E. Zion Church
P.O. Box 2292, Wilson, NC 27894
Email: [email protected]
Romans 10: 9-10 NIV
9 If
you declare with your mouth, “Jesus
is Lord,” and believe in your heart that
God raised him from the dead, you will
be saved.
10
For it is with your heart that you
believe and are justified, and it is with
your mouth that you profess your faith
and are saved.
Matthew 28: 18-20 NIV
18
Then Jesus came to them and said, “All
authority in heaven and on earth has been
given to me.
19 Therefore go and make disciples of all
nations, baptizing them in the name of the
Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit,
20 and teaching them to obey everything I
have commanded you. And surely I am with
you always, to the very end of the age.”
Matthew 16: 26 NIV
26
What good will it be for someone to
gain the whole world, yet forfeit their
soul? Or what can anyone give in
exchange for their soul?
2 Timothy 3: 2-5 NIV
2 People
will be lovers of themselves, lovers of
money, boastful, proud, abusive, disobedient to
their parents, ungrateful, unholy,
3 without love, unforgiving, slanderous, without
self-control, brutal, not lovers of the good,
4 treacherous, rash, conceited, lovers of
pleasure rather than lovers of God—
5 having a form of godliness but denying its
power. Have nothing to do with such people.
Matthew 25: 35-36 NIV
35
For I was hungry and you gave me
something to eat, I was thirsty and you
gave me something to drink, I was a
stranger and you invited me in,
36 I
needed clothes and you clothed me, I
was sick and you looked after me, I was in
prison and you came to visit me.’
Psalms 20:7
7 Some
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trust in chariots and some in horses, but
we trust in the name of the LORD our God.
Psalms 37:3
3 Trust in the LORD and do good; dwell in the
land and enjoy safe pasture.
Psalms 56:4
4 In God, whose word I praise— in God I trust
and am not afraid. What can mere mortals do
to me?
Proverbs 3: 5-6
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5 Trust in the LORD with all your heart
and lean not on your own understanding;
6 in all your ways submit to him, and he will
make your paths straight.
1 Corinthians 4:2
2 Now
it is required that those who have
been given a trust must prove faithful.
Matthew 5:14
14 “You
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are the light of the world. A town
built on a hill cannot be hidden.
2 Peter 1: 5-10
5
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For this very reason, make every effort to add to your faith
goodness; and to goodness, knowledge;
6 and to knowledge, self-control; and to self-control,
perseverance; and to perseverance, godliness;
7 and to godliness, mutual affection; and to mutual affection,
love.
8 For if you possess these qualities in increasing measure, they
will keep you from being ineffective and unproductive in your
knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ.
9 But whoever does not have them is nearsighted and blind,
forgetting that they have been cleansed from their past sins.
10 Therefore, my brothers and sisters, make every effort to
confirm your calling and election. For if you do these things,
you will never stumble,
1 Corinthians 1: 12-20 NIV
12 What
I mean is this: One of you says, “I follow Paul”;
another, “I follow Apollos”; another, “I follow Cephas”;
still another, “I follow Christ.”
13 Is Christ
divided? Was Paul crucified for you? Were you
baptized in the name of Paul?
14 I
thank God that I did not baptize any of you except
Crispus and Gaius,
15 so
no one can say that you were baptized in my name
16 (Yes,
I also baptized the household of Stephanas;
beyond that, I don’t remember if I baptized anyone else.)
1 Corinthians 1: 12-20 NIV
17 For Christ
did not send me to baptize, but to preach
the gospel—not with wisdom and eloquence, lest the
cross of Christ be emptied of its power.
18 For
the message of the cross is foolishness to those
who are perishing, but to us who are being saved it is the
power of God.
19 For it is written: “I will destroy the wisdom of the
wise; the intelligence of the intelligent I will frustrate.”
20 Where
is the wise person? Where is the teacher of the
law? Where is the philosopher of this age? Has not God
made foolish the wisdom of the world?
Matthew 28: 19
19 Therefore
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go and make disciples of all nations,
baptizing them in the name of the Father and of
the Son and of the Holy Spirit,
Proverbs 15:13,15,30
13 A
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happy heart makes the face cheerful, but
heartache crushes the spirit.
15 All the days of the oppressed are wretched,
but the cheerful heart has a continual feast.
30 Light in a messenger’s eyes brings joy to the heart,
and good news gives health to the bones.
Proverbs 17:22
22 A cheerful heart is good medicine,
but a crushed spirit dries up the bones.
2Cor 9:7
7 Each of you should give what you have decided in
your heart to give, not reluctantly or under
compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver.
Psalms 45:15
15 Led
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in with joy and gladness,
they enter the palace of the king.
Luke 15: 7
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tell you that in the same way there will be more
rejoicing in heaven over one sinner who repents
than over ninety-nine righteous persons who do
not need to repent.