Transcript NAMI Family Support Groups

NAMI Family Support Group
NAMI Family Support Group
Facilitator Training
Introduction to the Model
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Why Do We Need A Model?
• to help navigate around the predictable
negative group dynamics which can torpedo a
successful group process
• a support group can operate much like a
personality with a will of its own, and that
collective group willfulness can pull even the
most experienced facilitator off course
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Why do people go to a support group?
 To leave feeling better than when they came
 To feel that they contributed as well as they
were supported
 To feel in a very real way that they have
something in common with others.
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What do they want at a support group?
• A safe place
• To not be judged
• Boundaries that are enforced
• Capable Facilitators
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Have trained Facilitators who learn and use:
Strategies,
Structures, and
Processes.
They are Capable Facilitators, not therapists!
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A Capable Facilitator
•Asks group members to agree to share responsibility
for maintaining the Group Guidelines
•Sustains clear membership boundaries
•Clarifies goals: that is, our Principles of Support
•Identifies the common issues of the group in a
positive and optimistic manner
•Develops communication skills that encourage group
participation.
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Group Guidelines
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Principles of Support
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Strategies, Structures and Group Processes
The model that assures
an effective
support group meeting
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NAMI Family Support Group Model
• 5 Strategies
– Communication skills that “AID US”
• 4 Structures
– Agenda
– Group Guidelines
– Principles of Support
– Emotional Stages
• 3 Group Processes
– Hot Potatoes
– Group Wisdom
– Problem Solving
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• 5 Strategies
–Communication skills that “AID US”
• Affirm
• Inquire
• Direct
• Understand
• Support
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• 4 Structures
–Agenda
–Group Guidelines
–Principles of Support
–Emotional Stages
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NAMI Family Support Group Model
• 3 Group Processes
–Hot Potatoes
–Group Wisdom
–Problem Solving
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Rules in using the NAMI Family Support Group
model
•Facilitators always use the Facilitator Guides
•Facilitators pay particular attention to the rule
within the box on each Guide.
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AGENDA
Always start and stop on time
Always start Opening Stories
with the Facilitators
to model the 1-2 minute time limit.
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GROUP GUIDELINES
Don’t scold: be directive
Always model respect for the member being
disrespectful.
Remember, it’s normal for people to forget
guidelines in support groups.
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PRINCIPLES OF SUPPORT
Never lecture or instruct the group
about principles
Get the group talking about these universals
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Stages of Emotional Response
NEVER tell people where they are
Always ASK them what stage they think they are in
Direct the group’s attention
to what a person needs in that stage and
discuss how those needs can be met.
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Hot Potatoes
Never avoid a “Hot Topic”
when it comes up in a support group
“Own” a Hot Potato when it comes up
in a support group.
Traumatic events need to be detoxified.
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Group Wisdom
Always ask members what they know that is
CONSTRUCTIVE, PRACTICAL and HELPFUL
Group members assist each other
through their lived experience
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Problem Solving
When doing problem solving, you must shift to a
directive, leadership style
Do not use it for adherence, insight or symptomrelated problems.
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Remember, as a capable Facilitator:
You are present
to help the group meet its needs,
not to have the group
help you meet yours.
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What to expect at this training
To learn by doing
To make mistakes in the beginning; it’s part of the learning
process
To put into practice in a very practical way the strategies,
structures, and group processes outlined for you in this
presentation.
To have fun!