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Families Learning About Recovery
Strategies (FLARES): A group therapy
model for families facing sibling sexual abuse
M E G A N M . S C H A C H T, P H D
JERRY H. DUNN, PHD
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Sibling Sexual Abuse
Estimated to occur in approximately 13% of the
population (Finkelhor, 1980)
60% of psychiatric outpatients reported a history of
sibling sexual abuse (Bess & Jansenn, 1982)
For our purposes, “siblings” are defined as children
who grow up in the same family.
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Sexual Abuse or “Typical” Sexual Play
(NCTSN, 2009)
SEXUAL ABUSE
“TYPICAL” SEXUAL PLAY
Beyond the child’s
Occurs between children of
developmental stage
Involves threats, force, or
aggression
Involves kids of widely
different ages or abilities
Provokes strong
emotional reactions in
the child (e.g., anger,
anxiety, etc.)
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same general age/physical
size
Spontaneous and
unplanned
Infrequent
Voluntary
Occurs between kids who
know each other well
Easily diverted when
parents tell children to stop
and explain privacy rules
Factors that Contribute to
Sibling Sexual Abuse
Older sibling given too much responsibility
Witnessing or experiencing sexual abuse
Access to pornography
Neglect
Lack of sex education
Denial about family trouble/tensions
Caregivers feeling overwhelmed
Family Services of Greater Vancouver, 1994
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Impact of Sibling Sexual Abuse
Victim may feel pressured
May feel betrayed by breach in sibling relationship
Feelings of powerlessness to stop the abuse
Feelings of shame or responsibility
Offender may be protected by family secrecy
Family Services of Greater Vancouver, 1994
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No Easy Solution…
“I never imagined that someone would abuse my daughter
and I would end up responding by hiring him a lawyer.” (A
FLARES mother talking about her son)
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Impact on Families
Court involvement (at times adversarial)
Families separated as part of safety plans
Many demands on families’ time for treatment and
other services
Loyalty to children pulled in separate directions
May have highly symptomatic children and
caregivers
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Benefits of Group
Build social skills
Overcome feelings of isolation and helplessness
Hear a variety of viewpoints and can learn from
others
Opportunities to practice skills
Opportunity to help others
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Intake Process
Referral
CAC, self-referred, family court
Intake Assessment
Brief child & caregiver interviews to assess symptoms, trauma
history & interest in group
Symptom checklist (e.g., CBCL, TSCYC, or TSCYC)
Orient to the group
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FLARES Group Model
Child Only
Groups
Conjoint Family
Groups
Caregiver Only
Groups
Psychoeducation
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Relaxation
& Affect
Cognitive
Coping &
Trauma
Narrative
Trauma
Processing
Safety &
Reunification
Psychoeducation
Children
Rationale for trauma therapy
Myth Busters
Caregivers
Rationale
Fact sheets: what, who, reactions, treatment, sexual behaviors,
etc.
Conjoint Family
Jeopardy style game
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Relaxation & Affect
Children
Feeling identification & expression; thermometers
Taught focused breathing, PMR, guided imagery
Caregivers
Reflection & Active Listening
Breathing, PMR, guided imagery ; importance of practice &
how to coach their children
Conjoint Family
Stressful activity use relaxation rate feelings
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Cognitive Coping & Trauma Narrative
Children
Thoughts/feelings/behaviors; positive self talk; automatic
thoughts (older children)
Narratives journaling or thought garden
Caregivers
Cognitive triangle; automatic thoughts; inaccurate/unhelpful
thoughts
Read caregiver narrative & Prep for joint session
Conjoint
Meet as a family to share journal/thought garden & read 3rd
narrative
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FLARES Narratives
Individual Therapy vs. Group Therapy narrative
Risks of vicarious trauma
Use of 3rd Party Fictional Narratives
Tailor narrative content to group
Ability to titrate intensity of exposure
Use fictional narrative for caregivers as well
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Example of Child Narrative
My name is Jim and I am 9yo. When I was 7, I was
sexually abused by my older brother. His name is
Mike. Mike used to ask me to play video games with
him. He would have me sit on his bed and play.
Sometimes, while I was playing, he would start
rubbing my back. Then he would rub my leg. Then
he started rubbing my private. He told me it was a
different type of game and told me to rub his private
too. He said it was a secret game and I couldn’t tell
anyone. This made me feel nervous and
uncomfortable, even though he said it was a game.
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Example of Caregiver Narrative
We are a blended family of 7…After a weekend at her
mother’s, Rachel refused to come home with us.
After more questions, Rachel disclosed that Max had
gone into her room at night and touched her. Those
were the most wrenching words I had ever
heard…Coming to the realization that Max had
sexually abused his stepsister was an agonizing
process. We clutched at the possibility that Rachel’s
mother, a survivor of sexual abuse, might be putting
those ideas into our little girls mind. But the more
Rachel told us, the more we believed her. Doubt
quickly turned to shock, then to grief and anger.
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Trauma Processing
Child
Older kids – advice letters
Younger kids – thoughts about abuse; what they would tell a
friend
Caregivers
Process focused groups
Conjoint
“Talk Show”
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Safety & Reunification
Children
Abuse prevention/safety skills
Reunification & family safety plan
Caregivers
Family safety, managing holidays, etc.
Reunification, apology sessions, court issues, etc.
Conjoint
GRADUATION!!
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For more information…
Megan Schacht, PhD
Clinical Manager
Assistant Clinical Professor
Children’s Advocacy
Services of Greater St.
Louis
University of Missouri – St.
Louis
(314) 516-7338
[email protected]
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Jerry Dunn, PhD
Executive Director
Associate Clinical Professor
Children’s Advocacy
Services of Greater St.
Louis
University of Missouri – St.
Louis
(314) 516-7324
[email protected]