Transcript Summary Human Value Final - Anti

Universal Human Value
Dorji Thinlay
Chief Investigation Officer
Anti-corruption commission
Thimphu Bhutan
ACC Delegation, Maldives & Timor-Leste, 10 - 15 July, 2011
5th
www.acc.org.bt
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Nation’s Conscience
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Lead by Example
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If you Care, You will Dare
Exercise on Team Work
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Brain teaser
Conscious invoker
Objective - Score Maximum points.
Each straight line scores 5 points.
You get 30 seconds, (you need only 15 seconds)
Team Work: Competitive
Points = 5
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Team Work: Competitive
Points = 5
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Team Work: Self endeavour
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Points = 15
Team Work
Excellence
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Points = 15 + 15 = 30
Team Work: Supportive
Excellence
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Points = 15 + 15 = 30
Scores, how many scored:
1.
Zero =
We talk about Team Work.
2.
Five =
3.
Ten =
Do we pause for a minute,
analyze and think how one
could contribute?
4.
Fifteen =
5.
Thirty =
6.
Any other =
What is this so called
’Human Value’?
Human Conduct or Behaviour based on
one’s Natural Acceptance verified on
one’s Own Right
What is this Natural Acceptance?
Natural Acceptance is :- Innate Self
- Inner self
- Natural Self (coming from heart)
- Un-corrupt Self
Desire
We want to be happy
State of Being
Are we happy?
We want to be prosperous Are we prosperous?
We want the continuity of
happiness and
prosperity
Is there continuity of our
happiness and
prosperity?
What is the Ultimate Goal (desire) as a
Human Being?
Happiness is being in Harmony
Disharmony or Contradiction means (brings) = Unhappiness
Prosperity is Feeling of having more than required Physical
Facilities.
Then the feeling of not having more than required Physical
Facility = Deprivation.
Ingredient for
Happiness
Prosperity
Living in Harmony with:
1. Self
2. Other Self
3. Family
4. Society
5. Nature
6. Universe
Right
Feeling of having more than
required Physical Facilities.
Correct
assessment of
need for Physical
Facilities.
Right
Understanding
Understanding
Ingredient for
Happiness
Prosperity
Living in Harmony with: Feeling of having more than
required Physical Facilities.
1. Self
2. Other Self
3. Family
4. Society
5. Nature
For
continuous
Continuous
6. Universe
happiness
Right &
prosperity
Understanding
Society
Family
More
important
Process
of
Self
dialogue
within SELF
Other
self
Self
Self
Nature
Universe
Self
Who is the
biggest stranger
to you?
Yourself
Therefore,….
Self
Dialogue within SELF
How much do
How
Much???
we
understand
self?
Self
Right Understanding is deficient
Conclusion drawn based on:
1. Pre-conditioning
2. Assumption
Priority: Right Understanding of Relationship
& Physical Facility
1
2
Feelings
- Trust
- Respect
-…
RIGHT
UNDERSTANDING
in the self
RELATIONSHIP
with human
beings
3
PHYSICAL
FACILITY
with rest of
nature
MUTUAL HAPPINESS MUTUAL PROSPERITY
Priority: Physical Facility
?
RIGHT
UNDERSTANDING
in the self
?
RELATIONSHIP
with human
beings
1
PHYSICAL
FACILITY
with rest of
nature
UNHAPPINESS (Mutual) DEPRIVATION (Mutual)
Conflict, fight, war
Exploitation, corruption
9 Feelings in relationship:
1- Trust FOUNDATION VALUE
2- Respect
3- Affection
4- Care
5- Guidance
6- Reverence
7- Glory
8- Gratitude
9- Love COMPLETE VALUE
Trust
=
=
to be assured
to have the clarity that the other
wants to make me happy &
prosperous
When there is Trust on Intention, you feel
related to the other
Absence of Trust on Intention
= lack of assurance that the other intends my
happiness & prosperity
Evaluating Trust – Between 2 Individuals
Verify on the basis of your
natural acceptance
Verify on the basis of your
competence
1b. I am able to make myself
1a. I want to make myself
√
always happy
?
happy
2a. I want to make the other
2b. I am able to make the other
√
happy
always happy
?
3a. The other wants to make
√ 3b. The other is able to make
herself/himself happy
herself/himself always happy?
4a. The other wants to make 4b. The other is able to make me
?
me happy
always happy
??
Intention – Natural Acceptance
Competence
What is Naturally Acceptable to Me
What I am (∑ D, T, E)
About the Other
About Myself
The other broke a glass
The glass broke by accident
The other makes mistakes
intentionally
I make mistakes by accident
The other intended to break the
glass – The other is a bad
person
Even if I make the same
mistake 100 times, I never
doubt my intention – I always
feel I am a good person
I evaluate my self on my intention (2a) ... I conclude “I am good”
I evaluate the other on his competence (4b) ... I conclude “the other is
bad”
I conclude about the intention of the other on the basis of his
competence ... I doubt his intention
Irritation, anger, condemning the other are indications of doubt on
intention
Doubt on intention is a major reason for problems in relationships
When there is Trust on Intention, you feel
related to the other
Absence of Trust on Intention = lack of assurance
that the other intends my happiness &
prosperity
Check within yourself
How many persons do you have trust on intention
(natural acceptance)
– unconditional, continuous?
If you have unconditional, continuous trust on
intention (natural acceptance) of the other and if
the other is lacking competence, what will you do:
a)
b)
c)
d)
Try to improve his competence If Trust on Intention
Get irritated
Get angry
If Doubt on Intention
Have a feeling of opposition
This is fundamental. Trust on intention is the
foundation of relationship
Respect
Respect = Right Evaluation
Over evaluation
– to evaluate for more than what it is
Under evaluation
– to evaluate for less than what it is
Otherwise evaluation – to evaluate for other than what it is
Whenever the evaluation is not right, it is disrespect
Disrespect
Respect: Right Evaluation on the basis of the Self (I)
1.
Purpose
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2.
Our purpose is similar (on the basis of Natural Acceptance)
Program
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3.
I want to live with continuous happiness & prosperity
The other also wants to live with continuous happiness & prosperity
My program is to understand and to live in harmony at all levels
The program of the other is also to understand and to live in harmony at all
levels
Our program is similar
Potential

Desire, Thought & Expectation is continuous in me. I am endowed with Natural
Acceptance

Desire, Thought & Expectation is continuous in the other. The other is also
endowed with Natural Acceptance
Our potential is similar
make
him
understand
I am
committed
to
facilitate
feel
related
Do
Doubt
not
his
doubt
Competency
Intention
The Other is Similar to Me Feeling:
understanding in the other
Differentiation
Differentiation
Body
Age
Gender
Physical Facility
Race
Physical
Strength
Wealth
Post
Beliefs
Isms
Sects
Info
Differentiation = Disrespect
Not Naturally Acceptable… Opposition…
Evaluation on the basis of Body, Physical Facility or Beliefs
(preconditioning) turns out to be differentiation and therefore
disrespect
Self Confidence,
Ego & Depression
Over Evaluation
Under / Otherwise
Right Evaluation
Evaluation
Self Confidence
Ego
Depression
I am self referential
The other is my reference The other is my referenc
Definite Conduct
Indefinite Conduct
Indefinite Conduct
Check within Yourself!
The unhappiness in your family is
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More due to lack of physical facility or
More due to lack of fulfillment in relationship?
How much time and effort are you investing:
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
For physical facility
For fulfillment in relationship
The unhappiness is more due to lack of fulfillment
in relationship
Most of the time and effort is spent for physical
facility
Therefore we can observe two categories of
human beings
1.
2.
Lacking physical facility, unhappy deprived
Having physical facility, unhappy deprived
Affection
The feeling of being related to the other
(acceptance of the other as one’s relative)
One naturally feels related to the other when one has
the feelings of Trust and Respect in oneself for the
other
Absence of Affection = Opposition, Jealousy
Care
Guidance
Feeling of responsibility
toward the body of my
relative
Feeling of responsibility
toward the self(I) of my
relative
The responsibility &
commitment for
nurturing and
protecting the Body of
my relative
The responsibility &
commitment for ensuring
Right Understanding
and Right Feeling in the
self(I) of my relative
Care & Guidance naturally follow Affection
Reverence
The feeling of acceptance for Excellence
Excellence
Understanding Harmony &
Living in Harmony
at all 4 levels
1. In the Self, as an Individual
2. In Family
3. In Society
4. In Nature/Existence
The other is like me – I Trust, respect, care and guide…..
Excellence and competition are not similar.
In excellence, one helps to bring the other to his level
In competition, he hinders the other from reaching to his level
Verify on the basis of your natural acceptance if you want to be related
to:
None
X
 The feeling of being related to none – in opposition to all
One
The feeling of being related to one
√
Affection
The feeling of being related to many
Many
√
Everyone
Love
√
 The feeling of being related to all
Affection – The feeling of being related to the other
(acceptance of the other as one’s relative)
Love – The feeling of being related to all (Complete Value)
Program for Continuous Happiness
To understand the Harmony at all levels of our Being
1.
2.
3.
4.
Harmony in the Human Being
Harmony in the Family
Harmony in the Society
Harmony in Nature/Existence
Scope of Understanding
To live in Harmony at all levels of our Being
1.
2.
3.
4.
As an Individual
In Family
In Society
In Nature/Existence
Scope of Living
Right Understanding
1
RIGHT
UNDERSTANDING
in the self
Understanding Harmony:
-Harmony
in the at
Individual
Living
in Harmony
all 4 levels:
-Harmony in Family
-Individual
Living in Harmony at
2 RELATIONSH
3
PHYSICAL
all 4 levels:
-Harmony in Society
-Family
MUTUAL
HAPPINESS FACILITY
- Individual
IP with
-Harmony in
-Society
- Family
human
with
rest
of
MUTUAL PROSPERITY
- Society
Nature/Existence
-Nature/Existence
beings
nature
- Nature/Existence
Living with Human
Consciousness
MUTUAL HAPPINESS MUTUAL PROSPERITY
Let’sIt Living
with
Human
Consciousness
onlyLet’s
takes
Let’s
live
Right
live
Prosperously
Happily
Understanding